Did you ever wonder why you have been attracted to the people that you have been attracted to? Sometimes, it hardly seems to make sense. For me, I remember finding certain girls in high school, or women once I was an adult, strangely attractive, while numerous other guys would kind of make a face and shake their head. Yet, the object of their desire was often not particularly attractive to me, either.
Strange.
Sometimes, you wish you could be attracted to other types of people - particularly if you find yourself in the unfortunate position of being in love with someone who really seems intent on breaking your hear and making you suffer.
Yes, you may wish that you could feel as strongly for someone else as you do for that person, because you know, deep down, that this person really has not been good for you, and if you allow it, then can continue to do tremendous damage to your life. Chances are, you feel that you could probably be happy with someone else - and, in extreme cases, it may feel like almost anyone else could make you happier.
And yet, you know that it is not so easy, that emotions cannot be trifled with so effortlessly, so easily. As much as you may desire to move on, you just cannot believe that you will feel that level of attraction, and thus, you will not be able to be nearly as happy as you feel you ought to be.
Obviously, this is not a comfortable position to be in. Yet, many of us, if not most of us, have actually been there in our lives. I know I have. And it really can drag you through the mud, can feel like a living hell. Your head tells you what may even be obvious to everyone around you, that this object of your desire has not been good for you, and will continue not to be
Well, Dr. Kaku has studied this very thing, and he has come up with some interesting theories as to why this is, and why this should continue to be the case.
Here's the link:
Why We're Attracted To Certain People by Michio Kaku
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