Tuesday, November 30, 2021

🏈 NFL 2021-22 Thanksgiving Day Weekend Review: Playoff Picture Seems to Muddy Rather Than Clear 🏈

        



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Usually, the playoff picture grows quite a bit clearer as the season grows later, particularly after Thanksgiving weekend, as the NFL regular season enters it's final full month in December. On some level, that did happen, too. In some cases, NFL teams made clear statements with big wins, seemingly declaring with exclamation points that they will be going to the playoffs, and perhaps winning the division. That certainly felt like the case with the Bills, the Patriots, the Ravens, the Buccaneers, and the Packers. Other teams seem to be on the verge of such a statement, as well, including the Bengals and the 49ers.

In some cases, however the situation grew less certain than ever. That is the case with the AFC West, which is tighter than any race that I can remember this late in the season. Literally, each team in the division has a chance not only at qualifying for the postseason, but of winning the division. The first place team, the Kansas City Chiefs, lead the division by exactly one game against literally every other team in the division, who are each tied for both second and last place. The Cowboys also appeared to cast more doubts with another loss, while Washington is getting hot. The Eagles and even the Giants are each in the playoff race and even the division title race, even though that division seemed all but ended just a few weeks ago, as the Cowboys appeared to be running away with it. The Patriots and Bills are in a tight race in the AFC East, as well, although that particular battle should be decided fairly soon, as the two teams will meet not once, but twice in the coming weeks. 

If nothing else, these final weeks before the playoffs begin should be interesting, to say the least. Let's take a look at the Thanksgiving weekend that just passed in the NFL:



Cincinnati 41, Pittsburgh 10 - There is always that sliver of doubt that rises whenever I make a pick like this for one team that has historically been owned by another. The Bengals had already beaten the Steelers, and soundly, in Pittsburgh. But could they complete the season sweep? As it turns out, they did, and in a big way. They completely dominated the Steelers, holding onto the ball for over 35 minutes, producing 370 yards and 25 first downs on offense, and capitalizing on three Pittsburgh turnovers. Cincy was leading 41-3 late in the fourth quarter before the Steelers managed their first and only TD to make the game seem just a tiny bit more respectable on their end. But make no mistake, this really was a thrashing. The Bengals sure appear to be greatly improved, and heading towards the playoffs, as they improve to 7-4 on the season, and have won two straight games. As for the Steelers, they fall to 5-5-1, and have lost two straight games. My pick: Accurate


Atlanta 21, Jacksonville 14 - Atlanta kept their flickering playoff hopes alive with a nice road win against the Jaguars. True, Jax is hardly an NFL powerhouse, but then again, neither are the Falcons. So this was huge for Atlanta, who now find themselves in a two-way tie for second place in the NFC South with the New Orleans Saints, and with a real chance - albeit still slim - to somehow slip into the postseason. Statistically, the game was fairly even. But the Falcons took better advantage of their opportunities, especially early, building a sizable lead, and then holding off the Jaguars as they rallied to try and come back. The Falcons improve to 5-6 on the season, while the Jags fall to 2-9. My pick: Inaccurate


New England 36, Tennessee 13 - This has felt like an unusual, and admittedly rather unpredictable, season in the NFL. Just a few weeks ago, the Titans appeared to be the most steady team in the AFC, continually winning and remaining ahead in the top seed for the AFC playoff race. Then, an upset loss at home to Houston, followed by a drubbing in New England, and the Titans are knocked down a couple of pegs. They still lead the AFC South by a couple of games and a tiebreak, which should be comforting. But they do look a lot more vulnerable than they did only a short while ago. As for the Patriots, they keep on rolling. In an unpredictable season, the Patriots rise and return to the elites feels somehow almost predictable and normal, even though many did not expect them to rise quite this quickly or dramatically. They dominate the Titans to improve to 8-4 and, at least for this week, are in first place in the AFC East with their sixth straight win, although a date with the Bills in Buffalo looms this coming week. As for the Titans, they fall to 8-4, but again, remain in first place in the AFC South, and still sure appear heading to the postseason. My pick: Accurate


NY Giants 13, Philadelphia 7- My Giants managed to win a big NFC East meeting, for the first time in what feels like a very long time. Yes, the defense really stepped it up like they did in the old days, when they wore the uniforms that they wore for this game regularly, and not just as a throwback. The G-Men held onto the ball for over 32 minutes, but were convincingly outgained by the Eagles in yards, and even had fewer first downs. But Philly committed four turnovers, and the Giants committed none, which strongly contributed to this outcome. For the G-Men, this was a huge win that keeps them alive, somehow, for the playoffs despite a 4-7 record. For the Eagles, though, this was a missed opportunity to gain ground on the reeling Cowboys, as they could have pulled to within a game and a half. Instead, they fall to 5-7, and are now in third pace behind Washington, who won a big one this Monday night. My pick: Inaccurate


Tampa Bay 38, Indianapolis 31- The Bucs found a way to win a tough road game, showing why they are the league champions. This has been a time when a lot of teams who enjoyed seemingly strong grip on their division and their own fortunes have slipped quite a bit, including the Cowboys, Bills, Titans, and Raiders. But Brady and the Bucs just keep on rolling, correcting the mistakes that they made and learned from during a two-game skid a few weeks ago. Tampa Bay needed to overcome a 10-point deficit in the second half, and just took over the game. The stats between the two teams were actually fairly even, except that the Colts had five turnovers, while the Bucs limited it to two. Still, the two teams were tied late in the fourth quarter, until the Bucs showed the killer instinct with an 8-play, 75-yard drive that culminated with a 28-yard touchdown run by Leonard Fournette with just 20 seconds left in the game. That was the dagger in the heart that clinched it for Tampa, who improve to 8-3 on the season. Meanwhile, the Colts fall to 6-6, and failed to capitalize on a chance to pull within a game of the suddenly reeling Titans. My pick: Inaccurate


NY Jets 21, Houston 14 - The Jets overcame an 11-point deficit on the road to pull off an impressive comeback win here in a meeting between two of the teams with among the worst records in the league so far this season. Gang Green held onto the ball for well over 33 minutes, gaining 266 yards and 18 first downs on offense, to just 202 yards and 13 first downs for the Texans. Moreover, after the Texans went ahead 14-3 midway through the second quarter, the Gang Green defense stepped up in a big way, shutting out Houston the rest of the way, while the offense got to work and did enough to pull off just their third win for this season. My pick: Accurate


Miami 33, Carolina 10 - Carolina looked ready to meet the challenge of keeping up with the Dolphins through the first quarter. Then, it all came apart for them the rest of the way. The Fins held onto the ball for well over 37 minutes, gaining 315 yards and 22 first downs, to just 198 yards and 10 first downs for the Panthers. Cam Newton might have looked impressive in leading the Panthers to a win in his initial comeback game, but he looked a lot more pedestrian in this one. The Dolphins win their fourth straight game to improve to 5-7 on the year, while the Panthers fall to 5-7, and sole possession of last place in the NFC South, with this result. My pick: Accurate


Denver 28, LA Chargers 13 - If you just looked at just the statistics in this game, you might think that the Chargers won. They had a slightly better time of possession, but outgained Denver, 357 yards to 302. The two teams were more or less even in first downs picked up, but the Chargers had one more turnover than did Denver. Yet, the Broncos were dominating this game, at least on the scoreboard, 28-7, before the Chargers scored late to make it look closer than it did. And the final score hardly suggests a close game anyway. This result helped to throw the AFC West into turmoil, as both of these teams are now 6-5, and tied with the Raiders for second (as well as late) place in the AFC West, while they also all trail the division leading Chiefs by a game. My pick: Inaccurate


San Francisco 34, Minnesota 26- The 49ers are really coming on, and sure seem like one of the hottest teams in the league at the moment. San Fran held onto the ball for over 37 minutes, picking up 423 and 23 first downs, to just 323 yards and 17 first downs for Minnesota. Also, the Vikings had two turnovers, to just one for the Niners. The 49ers just took over the game with a 21-0 run from late in the second quarter and through the third, and Minnesota was just never really in this game again after that. With the win, the 49ers improve to 6-5 on the year, and have a winning record for the first time in over a month. Meanwhile, the Vikings fall to 5-6, and if the season ended today, they would miss the playoffs. My pick: Inaccurate


Green Bay 36, LA Rams 28 - A little over three weeks or so ago, the Rams were 7-1 and flying high, looking like they might race to the top seed in the NFC playoffs.  That, however, is starting to feel like a long time ago now, as the Rams drop their third straight game, and gave up more ground to other NFC teams in the playoff race. The Packers held onto the ball for almost 40 minutes, gaining 399 yards and 21 first downs, to 353 yards and 15 first downs for the Rams. Also, the Rams committed three turnovers, to just one for Green Bay. Still, this game remained tight through the first half, until Green Bay took over in the third quarter, putting the game out of reach. The Rams defense really is not looking like one of the elite units in the league, as it did earlier this season. My pick: Inaccurate


SNF: Baltimore 16, Cleveland 10 - The Browns are slipping a bit in recent weeks. It looks like they just have not recovered from a humiliating blowout loss at New England, as they have scored a total of 30 points in their last three games combined. The Ravens held onto the ball for over 37 minutes, picking up 303 yards and 22 first downs, to just 262 yards and 14 first downs for Cleveland. With the win, the Ravens remain the top seed in the AFC playoff race at the moment, with an 8-3 record. Meanwhile, the Browns fall to 6-6, missing an opportunity to tighten the AFC North race significantly and pull within half a game of the Ravens, Instead, they now are in sole possession of last place in their division, and do not look like a team heading to the playoffs at the moment. My pick: Accurate


MNF: Washington 17, Seattle 15 - The Seahawks are watching a season that seemed to begin full of promise now spiral out of control.  Washington held onto the ball for an incredible 41:46, or over two-thirds of the game. True, they did not exactly light up the scoreboard or anything, but still picked up 371  yards and 27 first downs, to just 267 yards and a measly 10 first downs for Seattle. Still, despite this seeming dominance, the game came down to the final seconds, as the Seahawks scored a touchdown, but failed on the two-point conversion. Then they recovered an onside kick, only to have it negated by an off-sides penalty. The second attempt at an onside kick failed, and that was the ball game. Washington improves to 5-6 on the season with their third straight win, and would actually be in the playoffs if the season ended tomorrow. They are also within two games of the division leading Dallas Cowboys, which seemed an unthinkable scenario just a few weeks ago. Meanwhile, the Seahawks suffered their third straight loss to fall to 3-8, and any real chance, however slim, at the playoffs pretty much went out the window with this loss. My pick: Accurate

Monday, November 29, 2021

⚽️ ⚽️ Paris Saint-Germain Bests Saint-Γ‰tienne, Remains Well Ahead in Ligue 1 ⚽️ ⚽️

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Saint-Γ‰tienne - Paris Saint-Germain ( 1-3 ) 



PSG returned to Ligue 1 play today, and managed to win convincingly against Saint-Γ‰tienne. This win allowed them to expand their strong hold on first place. 

However, PSG did not exactly get off to a hot start. They were nhearly held scoreless throughout the first half, and allowed Saint-Γ‰tienne to take the 1-0 lead after Denis Bouanga scored in the 23rd minute. An upset looked very possible at that point.

However, TimothΓ©e Kolodziejczak of Saint-Γ‰tienne received a red card 45th minute, giving PSG a man advantage. The game turned from that point onward.

Marquinhos broke through first for PSG, tying the game at 45th +2 minutes, to tie it for halftime.

In the second half, Ángel FabiÑn di María broke through in the 79th minute to give the Parisians their first lead of the game.

Finally, Marquinhos scored again at 90 + 1 to ice the win for PSG.

Again, PSG solidified their strong grip on first place in Ligue 1, having accumulated 40 points after 15 games played. In second place is Rennes, with 28 points after 15 games, followed by Nice with 26 points after 15 games  played. Lens is in fourth with 25  points after 15 games played, and rounding out the top five is Marseille with 23 points after 13 games played, although they were in the middle of playing Troyes as this was being written. 


Sunday, November 28, 2021

🏈 NFL 2021-22 Thanksgiving Day Weekend Preview 🏈

        



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Pittsburgh at Cincinnati - These two teams are very different from when these two teams met the first time this season. The Bengals managed to pull off an upset on the road in that one. Now, with both teams showing some level of inconsistent play, this game will be played in Cincy. That makes it interesting. How long has it been since the last time that the Bengals swept the Steelers? My suspicion is that the Bengals manage to complete the sweep with a win in this one. My pick: Cincinnati


Atlanta at Jacksonville - A bit of a difficult game to pick. My suspicion is that the Falcons are probably the better overall team, but they have had their share of problems this season. Also, they just are too inconsistent to feel very comfortable picking them. Jax is improved from last season, but that is not saying much. Still, they are better, and they have home field advantage, so that makes them my pick for a narrow win. My pick: Jacksonville


Tennessee at New England - The Titans and Patriots are set for a huge meeting between two of the seemingly best teams in the AFC. The Pats host this game, but that might not be the big advantage that it might seem, because they appear to be better on the road so far this season, as they sport a perfect 5-0 road record. The weather should not be too much of a factor, at least not a deciding factor today. It should be a tough game, but the Pats are red hot right now, and the Titans probably overlooked their weaker opponents, the Texans, in anticipation of this game. Big test for both teams, and I feel like it could go either way. But if I have to pick....My pick: New England


Philadelphia at NY Giants - My Giants are basically out of the playoff picture. Once again, they are the doormats for the rest of the NFC East, as each team tries to make that big push for the playoffs. Philly feels particularly hot right now, and the stakes could not be higher for them. Feels like they should be able to take this one. My pick: Philadelphia


Tampa Bay at Indianapolis - The Bucs are the defending champs, and have the GOAT at the helm. The Colts have rebounded strongly after an 0-3 start, have won five of their last six games, and host this game. Both of these teams feel like they are heading to the playoffs. All of that makes this a particularly intriguing game. Frank Reich feels like he is getting this Colts team on the right track, but they have much less margin for error than Tampa Bay does. The Bucs are in a weak division, and basically have that division locked up, at least de facto. True, if they lose this one, than that would make three losses in their last four games, but they can make adjustments. A loss here for Indy could prove devastating to their playoff hopes. So my suspicion is that they find a way to win, albeit narrowly. My pick: Indianapolis


NY Jets at Houston - Two of the weakest teams in the league meet up. Gang Green have to go to Houston for this meeting, and they too often have not enjoyed good fortune in that city. They have also lost the last three meetings between these two franchises, dating back to 2012, in a game that I actually attended. However, my suspicion is that their fortunes change here, as they put it together and earn a rare win. It feels refreshing to be able to honestly pick the Jets for a win here, and it brings me a bit of joy to make this particular prediction. My pick: NY Jets


Carolina at Miami - The Panthers are inconsistent this season. They could come out roaring, or they could meow timidly and hide for the entirety of the game, or at least the most crucial parts of it. You just never know which of those Carolina teams are going to show up. But the Dolphins feel like a team on the rise, and they are hot. Not sure if they have realistic aspirations to qualify for the postseason or not. However, they are on the rise, and look like they feel that confidence building up inside of them, inside of this franchise. It should carry them to a win here. My pick: Miami


LA Chargers at Denver - Another difficult game to pick. The Broncos have home field advantage, which could prove helpful. But then again, they have a losing record at home overall, while the Chargers have been awesome on the road so far. The Chargers earned a huge win last weekend against the Steelers, in a game that had some playoff ramifications. They should be flying high, and that is why I am picking them to get past the Broncos here at Mile High today. My pick: LA Chargers


Minnesota at San Francisco - Two teams that are surging at the moment. The 49ers have won two in a row, while Minnesota also won two in a row, and four of their last six games overall. Still, they are on the road, and against a hot Niners team. This makes it a difficult game to choose, as I could see scenarios playing out that favor either team. But it feels like the Vikings have gotten past some more serious teams, most recently the Chargers and Packers, and this should help them to squeak by the 49ers in this one. My pick: Minnesota


LA Rams at Green Bay - This is a difficult game to pick for, as well. Both teams feel like they lost a bit of steam in recent weeks. The Packers are comfortably in control of their own destiny in the NFC North, but they also just do not feel as dominant as they did just a few weeks ago. Then again, the Rams looked like one of the elites, but after dropping their last two straight games, it feels like there are more question marks than answers for this team. But Rodgers has been struggling, and he will face one of the toughest defense in the league in this one. Here is my upset special for this week. My pick: LA Rams


SNF: Cleveland at Baltimore - The Browns are kind of an up and down team so far this season. That is true of the Ravens as well, but it feels more true of Cleveland. I would feel more confident picking the Ravens if they had earned an exclamation point kind of win in Chicago last week. They won, but it felt like there were more questions raised than fears put aside. Still, my instincts tell me that the Ravens will somehow find a way to win this one. My pick: Baltimore


MNF: Seattle at Washington - The Seahawks are probably the better overall team, but it does not necessarily feel like it the way that this season has played out for these two teams. The Seahawks just are not enjoying a good season, while Washington is surging after starting off miserably. So I suspect that the momentum from Washington's recent upswing helps carry them to victory in this one. My pick: Washington Football Team

Saturday, November 27, 2021

🏈 NFL 2021-22 Thanksgiving Day Games Review: Host Teams All Fall on Turkey Day 🏈

       



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Chicago 16, Detroit 14 – The Lions really looked like they had this one. Once again, they were winning this game until the final play of the game. And once again, their opponents ended up winning with a field goal attempt that split the uprights. Yes, unfortunately for Lions fans, the Bears won this one. They did it with a dominant third quarter, where they outscored the Lions 13-0. That might not sound like all that much, except that these two teams have among the worst offenses in the entire league. So 13 points is a veritable explosion. Case in point, despite Chicago’s only points scored outside of the second quarter being that winning field goal on the game’s final play. Those 13 points in the second quarter, and the field goal in the final seconds, was enough to win it. Yet, despite the decidedly few points that these two teams put on the scoreboard, the Bears did come up with some impressive numbers. They held onto the ball for almost 33 minutes and produced 378 yards of offense, as well as 21 first downs. Compare that to just 239 yards of total offense and 14 first downs for Detroit. Andy Dalton led the Chicago offense,  and he looked reminiscent of his Cincinnati days, completing 24 of 39 passes for 317 yards, with one touchdown, as well as one INT. Not Hall of Fame numbers, but certainly enough to push the Bears past the Lions in this one, and complete the season sweep. It also keeps the Lions winless, as they fall to 0-10-1 on the year now, and remain the league’s only winless team. Looking at their remaining schedule, it is really difficult to see where they might earn their first win of the season, because none of their remaining games look particularly easy. Perhaps at Atlanta on Christmas weekend, but even that is far from a given. As for Chicago, this win stops the bleeding for now, ending a losing streak that had grown to five games. They improve 4-7 on the season, and while they remain very much on the outside looking in for the overall playoff picture, this at least keeps their very slim chances alive, at least as we enter December. My pick: Inaccurate





Las Vegas 36, Dallas 33 (OT) – This was not the result that I was expecting. Also, it sure feels like the Cowboys are going through some major issues at the moment. After the disappointment in losing to the Chiefs in Kansas City, the 'Boys needed to rebound with a solid win, or at least a win. But they failed. It was a back and forth game, a shootout that was heavy on offense and a little too light for my tastes on defense. Surprisingly, despite being a back and forth game, the Raiders never railed at any point, although Dallas did manage to tie the game a couple of times in the fourth quartet, and they managed to keep it close when the Raiders were threatening to pull away. The Raiders held onto the ball for over 39 minutes including the overtime session. More impressively, they compiled a total of 509 yards on offense, and 28 first downs. Derek Carr completed 24 of 39 passes for 373 yards and a touchdown. The Dallas offense, meanwhile, held onto the ball for under 27 minutes including the overtime session, and earned 437 yards and 23 first downs. Dak Prescott completed 32 of 47 passes for 375 yards and two touchdowns, but it was obviously not enough. With the win, the Raiders stop a three game skid that was threaten2ing to push them too far behind to realistically stay in the AFC West race, and possibly even the AFC playoff picture, had it kept going much longer. They now rejoin the family of teams with winning records and realistic playoff hopes. As for Big D, this loss continues the trend of them showing signs of a lack of stability, as they have now dropped three of their last four games. They fall to 7-4, and while they remain comfortably ahead in the NFC East, they no longer as so far ahead of the rest of the pack that it is almost unthinkable to think that another team could possibly catch up, particularly the Eagles, who are two games behind, but host the Cowboys in the regular season finale. The Cowboys will also have to face rising Washington twice, and that no longer looks like a sure win for Dallas, either. Still, if the Cowboys correct their current problems and get back to winning football games, they should still be able to pull out the NFC East title, and rank among the elites in the NFC in terms of overall seeding come January. But they have to fix the problems that have prevented them from continuing their earlier level of success, when they raced out to a 6-1 start. My pick: Inaccurate





Buffalo 31, New Orleans 6 – This was the one game where I picked right. Yes, the Bills effectively crushed the Saints in New Orleans, which helps them get back on track a bit, despite the still worrying problems that they suffered through. The Bills really left no doubt in this one. The offense showed signs of life, and the defense pretty well shut down the Saints offense. Buffalo held onto the ball for over 34 minutes, gaining 361 yards and 21 first downs, to just 190 yards and 12 first downs for New Orleans. Yes, the Bills offense seemed to find itself a bit in this game, and their defense was really on point. In fact, they were pitching a shutout until the first play of the fourth quarter, when the Saints finally managed to get on the scoreboard. But it was not enough to get them back into this game, and yet another touchdown by the Bills in answer just a few minutes later pretty well assured not only that they would win, but that they would do so by blowout, as well. Not much good to take away for Saints fans from this game, but Bills fans can surely get excited about this big road win that gets the Bills back on track. Hopefully, anyway. At the very least, this was the tonic that they needed at this point in time. My pick: Accurate

Friday, November 26, 2021

Some Pictures of My Son When Younger





 

My son is hardly old or anything. He just turned 16 earlier this month.

Still, it is still shocking that 16 years could have passed so fast, and that he is now in high school (sophomore year), and took Driver's Ed, and will soon enough be driving. He may be on the verge of getting his first ever job, and has some interests in possibly starting a business. There is an interest there also in photography, which to me shows an artistic side, something that runs in our family, and which I was pretty sure would be evident in him, as well. 

Obviously, I am enormously proud of him. His presence has changed my life, and for the better, at that. My life is far better and more complete with him, to the point that the life I had before him, or might have without him, feels almost unimaginable to me. He is growing older, and has impressed me quite a bit with his maturity. In short, he has grown up to be a very decent person, a seriously good young man, and the world needs more people like that. Thus, I see in him promise for the future. The world is a better place because he is a part of it, and the future looks a little bit brighter because of that fact. That makes me both proud and hopeful. 

These were pictures that I had found, almost accidentally, among my ex's Facebook page. We are not enemies. Indeed, we may be divorced, but I made clear to him when it happened that while Mom and Dad would no longer be together the way that he had known it up to that point, we would nonetheless remain forever his Mom and his Dad. In other words, we get along. There are differences of opinion and such between us, of course, but we put those aside when it comes to his well-being. That seems the least that we can do for him. He was a child at the time when our relationship ended it, and what pulled us apart certainly was not his fault. We agreed that he should not be made to pay for the mistakes and issues of adults, and have more or less done this to the best of our ability.

Thus, I borrowed these pictures in the best spirit, just wanting to celebrate his presence in both of our lives. And since this is a time when family seems especially important, I thought that it would be a nice gesture to get another post in that was family-themed. So, these are some pictures of him, generally when he was still very, very young. Some of them came out a bit distorted when enlarged too much, so I had to mix some between the extra-large size and some that had to remain smaller, because the bigger versions just did not come out all that great. Included in these pictures are a couple from different Halloweens, as well as a few from a trip to Ontario that we took, with both Niagara Falls and Toronto visible in the background. There are plenty of others with him, and when I see them, they bring me joy. I celebrate and have fond memories of the little boy he was back then, even while I celebrate and appreciate the young man he has grown up to become so far.

So here are those pictures, and hopefully, there will be more down the road, God willing. 

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Thursday, November 25, 2021

Thanksgiving Day 2021: What I'm Thankful For

 First Fun Thanksgiving, after J.L.G. Ferris





Earlier today, I published several posts that were all about Thanksgiving and the history of this holiday. Mostly, it was negative, because if we are to take a real, objective look at this holiday and the history behind it, we find that it is mostly negative. Years ago during a Pow Wow of local Lenni Lenape, I asked a woman there if she celebrated Thanksgiving, and she instantly went from smiling to serious, and clearly and unequivocally said no. The details of the conversation escape me, and we did not discuss it for very long. But I remember how serious she got, and that she was emphatic on her views, and that Thanksgiving was nothing to celebrate from her perspective.

For a while, I was considering trying to stop celebrating Thanksgiving myself. However, it is one of the rare holidays when family and/or friends all get together and, for once in this country, try to appreciate what we have, instead of focusing exclusively on what we want to obtain. Of course, even on that end, our focus seems to be entirely too short, because this holiday, which we are supposed to celebrate in the spirit of thankfulness, of gratitude for all that we have been blessed with, is immediately followed up by Black Friday, which just may be the day annual day where we see the worst in people, and the focus is exclusively on selfishness, on greed, on desire to obtain things that we do not need, and which too often gets accompanied by violence in the process. 

However, it seems to me that perhaps we should not throw out the baby with the bathwater. Western society in general, and American society in particular, tends to gloss over, at best, all that we should be appreciative of. That feels true, even though we probably have the most to be thankful for. When you watch the news over the years and decades, it is hard to miss tragic news stories all around the world. There is obvious and inescapable instability in so many places all around the globe. We here in our rather privileged western societies (not a term used in geographical terms) have escaped most of that. Indeed, we live in affluent societies, where stability largely prevails. We may have some differences, politically, but most of us can surely agree that we have the rather unique privilege, historically speaking, of enjoying stability and even relative predictability on a day-to-day basis. We enjoy comforts that monarchs and emperors over the centuries would have killed - possibly quite literally - to enjoy. That includes a roof over our heads for a vast majority of us, including the ability to modulate how warm or cool it is. There is no shortage of methods for us to remain entertained, from music to movies to television shows to online videos to books, and the internet has made most of these things available to us faster than ever before. Indeed, most of us in the West possess devices which, almost literally, brings us the world right at our fingertips, if we want it. Unfortunately,however, most of us use these devices for other, often times more selfish and narrow-minded, purposes.

So while I have admittedly not stopped celebrating Thanksgiving - at least not yet - I do believe that it should serve it's most positive function, at the very least. We should be mindful of all that we are thankful of. Frankly, we should be mindful of this far more often, probably on an everyday basis. The world would likely be a brighter, far less dark and unwelcoming place, if we did this in reality. So while I recognize the problems with this holiday, it seems important also not to discourage the spirit of thankfulness that inspired it. 

And in that spirit, this year it seemed important to mention what I am thankful for. As always, I am thankful for the relative health of my family and friends, and their presence in my life. This seems particularly true this year, as concerns for my father's health in particular have grown quite a bit. I visited him last week in a retirement home, and it was admittedly a shock. Like with many people, my image of my father from the old days of my childhood was that he seemed to symbolize masculine energy and strength. Seeing him as diminished and seemingly drained as he was, then, was a bit of a shock to me. 

Yet, he is still with us, for which I am thankful. My mom still visits him regularly, and in fact, she and I just spoke about her visits yesterday. Until recently, Thanksgiving was one holiday where the family would get together. Unfortunately, that is not so much the case now, as the family now is spread out over a relatively large span of geography, which has made getting together far more difficult. But I will share this holiday with my son, and with my girlfriend, for which I feel blessed. So I am thankful for that opportunity, and for all the other blessings with which my life has been graced.

Below, it seemed appropriate to add recent pictures. The top one is the school picture for this academic year of my son. Under that are the two pictures that I took of both of my parents, at my mom's request, during my two visits last week. They were actually from my second visit, which came on Tuesday.

Enjoy, and be blessed and remember what you are thankful for on this day.





A Little More About Thanksgiving

 First Fun Thanksgiving, after J.L.G. Ferris






First of all, I am trying to steer clear of National Geographic, ever since Rupert Murdoch took it over and made it a soundboard for his neocon ideology.

Also, I do not want to be the guy who brings everybody down by continually mentioning that the true history of Thanksgiving is a lot less innocent and noble than has been traditionally, popularly believed.

That said, I am adding this one link that brings out another aspect of Thanksgiving history, although doing so with this little aside: I will be celebrating Thanksgiving with not one, but two Thanksgiving meals with friends and family today. However, I will be celebrating by trying to emphasize all of the blessings that I have been truly blessed with. Also, we cannot change history, but we can try to understand it more accurately, and come to terms with it. I am not advocating scrapping Thanksgiving altogether, but the crimes committed in the past, which this holiday essentially honors, should be addressed plainly and truthfully. So, I am doing my part (or as much as I can right now) to spread the word. It seems particularly relevant right now, when the United States is under the microscope for all of the racial tensions that are rising to the surface at this moment in history.


A Few Things You (Probably) Don’t Know About Thanksgiving by Becky Little of National Geographic, November 21, 2015:

Thanksgiving's Controversial History

 First Fun Thanksgiving, after J.L.G. Ferris




Years ago, I wrote what may very well have been the best Guardian Liberty Voice article authored by me yet.


It was not read by too many people, I suspect. But that said, it was a good, solid article that explored the fascinating history of this holiday. I received compliments from the few people who I knew for sure had read the article, such as the editor. 


So, it seemed appropriate to publish it (or the link to it) yet again this year. Hope you enjoy!




I have wanted to do a history of the Thanksgiving holiday for a long time now. For whatever the reason, my assumption was that this had already been done to some extent on this blog page before but, when I checked earlier today, this was proven not to be the case.

Here is the thing about Thanksgiving: it is a great holiday, yet it also represents something terrible. That makes it a paradox, really. Let me explain.

The first time that I really came to understand the depth of the anger by Native Americans regarding the holiday was a number of years ago, after reading an article from Ward Churchill. He mentioned that celebrating Thanksgiving was essentially an insult to the native people, and that, in fact, it should be a day of mourning.

Since then, I have done further explorations, and even asked one native during a Pow Wow a couple of years or so back about it, and the answers have more or less been the same: Native Americans feel that this holiday represents an insult to their people, and a constant reminder that the holiday that we tend to think represents friendship and cooperation between Indians and Pilgrims actually represents the beginning of the end of their culture and traditional way of life.

For a little while, I was even entertaining the idea of abandoning the holiday, although this never actually came to pass.

Why?

Because it is a nice holiday, with a noble meaning, even if the holiday that it falls on is a bit tainted with history. But in researching for this article, and listening to Suzan Shown Harjo, as well as reading so0me of the arguments of those that went to Plymouth today to protest the holiday, made me realize that what needs to change is not perhaps the holiday itself, or what it is supposed to represent. Rather, what needs to change is the common misunderstanding about the origins of Thanksgiving, and why, specifically, natives find it offensive and representing something far more sinister than most popular perceptions.

If you are interested in finding out more, please start by reading my article by clicking on the link below, but also, do some of your own research. This is an important issue, and any American that feels some measure of patriotic duty should understand this history better, in order to come to terms with the darker aspects of our national past.

Also, one thing that bothers me about this holiday, or more this holiday weekend, is that it is immediately followed by Black Friday, which is perhaps the single day when, more than any other date on the calendar, represents our society's excessive greed and mindless consumerism. The fact that this comes literally the day after we are supposed to take time out to be thankful for all that we have been blessed with in life and that, furthermore, Black Friday is increasingly encroaching on the Thanksgiving holiday itself, is the height of hypocrisy. It suggests that there really is something wrong with this society, and we would do well, I think, not to simply shrug our shoulders or ignore it. We should recognize it, own up to it, and individually, refuse to participate in "Black Friday" deals and shopping, particularly with those stores that are trying to open up on Thanksgiving itself.

As I was driving past some malls earlier this evening, at an hour when the malls are usually closed and the vast parking lots normally deserted, I sighed at the sight of those parking lots almost filled to the brim. Thanksgiving was not yet officially over, and people surely were still feeling that heaviness from a huge dinner, and the fatigue from eating all of that turkey. Yet, so many people were out and about, hoping to horde as many great deals as possible, even though many retail stores jack up the prices prior to Black Friday before marking them down with significant seeming savings. It all seems so shady, such a scam, and it is more than a little disappointing to see greed win out on the part of all participants of this event.

Personally, I want absolutely no part of Black Friday, and urge any and all of you out there not to have anything to do with it, either. But ultimately, of course, that choice is yours to make.

Would have liked to get this published earlier. However, Thanksgiving is usually chaotic, between working overnight, getting a few hours of sleep, then eating a late Thanksgiving lunch with family, before going further south to meet my girlfriend, and head towards the place we have gone to the last three years. It has been a busy day, with very little time, as well as limited access, to the internet. So, I post this when I can.

Here is the link to my article, and I do hope that you take a look:


Thanksgiving Has a Controversial History

http://guardianlv.com/2014/11/thanksgiving-has-a-controversial-history/

Thanksgiving From a Native American Perspective is Nothing to Celebrate

 First Fun Thanksgiving, after J.L.G. Ferris






Like with my other Thanksgiving posts, this one has been published before. In fact, republishing the same Thanksgiving posts is becoming somewhat of a holiday tradition for me in it's own right.

Yet, this year, there is something different. This year, we are watching the Dakota Access Pipeline protesters in North Dakota, many of whom are Native Americans, and the pipelines themselves run through traditional, sacred burial grounds for Native Americans.

It is really disgraceful, the methods being employed in order to test their will. Just a couple of days ago, water was sprayed on some of the peaceful protesters, in subfreezing temperatures! One woman apparently almost lost her arm, and had to be airlifted out, because the roads were closed by local police. Dogs were brought in months ago, biting and tearing into the peaceful protesters, in scenes that were reminiscent of the civil rights movement of the 1950's and 1960's. Perhaps this is fitting, given the obvious racial tensions and issues that this election year of 2016 so highlighted, with everything from the recent police shootings and beatings that have been caught on tape, to the election win of a man who made racist statements and had no problems being the great white hope for the alt right. 

So for this Thanksgiving, as we sit at our tables and hope to avoid political conversations with in-laws who hold views that we hope to to hear for dinner, let us remember that Native Americans not only do not celebrate this holiday, but look at it as a reminder of the long line of betrayals that led to their downfall, and our modern society's takeover. It is thus quite ironic that Native American (and other) protesters are being treated so harshly trying to defend their land and protect drinking water, while we collectively will be seated inside comfortably and stuffing ourselves after giving thanks, before going out to camp out for the night so that we can grab the best deals on the latest cell phones and other electronics, or whatever else people seem to covet. Let us recognize that this world seems in far greater danger now than it did during Thanksgiving a year ago, with two huge election results that seemed to run counter to the idea of progress, and with confirmed reports that climate change is accelerating not only at a faster pace than previously experienced, but that we will be seeing the effects soon enough - all while a climate change denier is preparing to take office.



I remember first reading Ward Churchill explaining why he was not going to celebrate Thanksgiving many years ago, and it opened my eyes about this holiday. I have asked some Native Americans about it, and they made clear - crystal clear - they they never, ever celebrate on Thanksgiving. The origins that are commonly believed are mere myth, and the reality is far less flattering. Yes, I know this is depressing, but it is true history. Still, the holiday has grown into something bigger, and there are positive aspects to it. And I, for one, have always celebrated with family. Still, understanding the history and the controversy behind it is something worth keeping in mind, and we should understand and appreciate why natives not only do not celebrate, but feel that it represents a betrayal of their culture and their ancestors in a very real sense.

As I mentioned in my last couple of posts, Thanksgiving today has a certain beauty to it, a nobility of spirit with that increasingly rare purity of intentions. It seems relatively benign, although that purity is increasingly compromised by the sales of Black Friday, which has become a sort of madness that has overtaken both consumers and retailers combined. The doors opened their doors sooner and sooner, so that they went from opening at ridiculous, overnight hours, and now are opening their doors on Thanksgiving itself, right in the afternoon.

I mentioned in one of those earlier posts that one of my coworkers at my relatively new weekend job works at Walmart, and they are forcing all of their employees to come in on Thanksgiving afternoon proper. So, Black Friday is already now starting on Thursday afternoon, on Thanksgiving itself, which detracts from the very notion of being truly thankful for what we have. Personally, going out to the stores to do some shopping is the last thing that I want to do on Black Friday, and I try to avoid it like the plague. It brings the worst out in people. Thanksgiving is supposed to be a refreshing break from that, but apparently no longer.

Now, we will begin to hear horror stories of excess greed and a certain madness right on Thanksgiving itself, unfortunately. Perhaps it is fitting, since consumerism is what this society care about the most, if we are honest with ourselves. After all, one of the lesser known aspects of the history of Thanksgiving was, simply, that the tradition actually started the day after a massacre of Native Americans by the Pilgrims, when Governor of Massachusetts William Bradford wanted to honor the day by marking the date as something that should be celebrated well into the future. Thus, the tradition dates back to the massacre of the Pequots, and their essential removal from New England during the Pequot War in the 17th century. These are the words he specifically uttered in hopes of establishing a holiday of giving thanks for what he saw as a hard-won victory over natives (even while what was actually described sounds a whole lot more like a ruthless massacre):

“For the next 100 years, every Thanksgiving Day ordained by a Governor was in honor of the bloody victory, thanking God that the battle had been won.” 

Is it not completely understandable that Native Americans refuse to celebrate?

So, it seemed appropriate on this day to present a very different angle of this holiday, by the perspective of the native people themselves. Here are a few links to articles from natives about Thanksgiving, in order to gain a deeper and truer appreciation of what it truly represents to them:



Thanksgiving, Hope and the Hidden Heart of Evil  by Jacqueline Keeler 11/26/14:



6 Thanksgiving Myths, Share Them With Someone You Know  Vincent Schilling 11/28/13:




The Wampanoag Side of the First Thanksgiving Story  Michelle Tirado 11/22/11: